Parenting is not only about moms. Dads are just as needed so start connecting with your ‘buddies’. Be a friend to your children and you will find there is much to gain from this. You can be a friendly influence on them, instilling confidence and helping them to develop independence. Play the role you want your children to emulate as they grow up. Let’s see how dads can connect with their daughters and sons. 
DAUGHTERS 
Guiding Star 
Dad's perspectives are most welcome when daughters are at the cross-roads of making important life–decisions. Dads are more analytical in clarifying a difficult situation. Step in to correct unacceptable behaviour and explain why you did this to help them understand that your actions are borne out of love. Be a part of her learning environment; volunteer for field trips or assist her in her pursuits. Be there for her. 
Boosting Image 
Dad's influence on his daughter's self-image is immense. While they are pressured by others to project an attractive appearance, dads have the ability to make their daughters feel beautiful from within. Encouraging words such as "You can do it" or complimenting character qualities such as a sense of humour and loyalty reaffirms your devotion and love. 
Lending an Ear
Dads can be just as comforting as moms. Offer her a sympathetic ear or even a shoulder to cry on. Allow her to express her feelings by drawing her out and respond with empathy. It reinforces her trust in you. 
Providing Security
Dads are a pillar of strength and are excellent in their traditional role of providing security - protecting their daughters from physical, emotional, moral and spiritual dangers. Make her aware of people who may not share her opinions of the world. Talk her through difficult and dangerous situations and teach her to defend herself. It can be about calling an emergency number or discussing unwelcome attention. 
SONS 
Looking Ahead
Be interested in your son's goals and ambitions and all that would shape him to be a good person. Enjoy moments talking about his academic future, career or even matters related to socialising with the opposite sex. Listen more and keep an open mind. Trust him with responsibilities so he can display his maturity. 
Setting the Stage
Children are great imitators and love to mirror adults; so be the best mirror for your children. Live a responsible lifestyle as a good husband and father. It is worthwhile being demonstrative with your emotions - both verbally and physically. Remember to maintain two-way discussions and encourage them to contribute their opinions. An open relationship creates a warm atmosphere keeping the door open for your son to connect with you. 
Keeping Track 
Irrespective of how independent your son has become, let them know you are still keeping an eye on them. You have to teach them accountability if they misbehave and correct them when necessary. You may even have to monitor their language so that it is not used to show disrespect for anyone. 
Instilling Values 
You have to get your son ready to step into society and life outside himself. He needs to know that respecting authority instills humility. Encourage prayer and devotion because faith develops resourcefulness and courage. Involve your son in community service that exposes him to real-life experiences and values such as showing gratitude, work ethics and honesty.

Dads have the capability to manifest themselves in the hearts of their children and can continue in this fulfilling role regardless of age. 


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